You're Standing at a Threshold
Whether something is beginning, ending, or just niggling away in the background that you don't fully understand yet, you don't have to figure it out alone.
I create spaces where women can slow down, listen deeply, and find their way through life's thresholds.
You might be here because....
You've held a lot together. Possibly for a long time. Life, work, relationships.
The expectations.
And from the outside, it probably looks more than fine.
But underneath?
Something doesn't quite fit anymore.
You can feel it in your body. In your energy. In the way things that used to work just... don't
It's hard to name. Harder to explain.
Something under the surface is definitely shifting. Perhaps it feels like grief and excitement. Fear and possibility.
An ending and a beginning, all at once.
Not because anything has gone wrong. necessarily. But because life is inviting you across a threshold.
Life brings all of us to thresholds, sometimes multiple thresholds - all at once. (Er... thanks for that!)
A threshold is the space between what has been and what is in the process of becoming. It's the in-between place where life no longer feels as it once did, but what's next isn't yet clear.
It might be the end of a relationship, a career change, becoming a parent, children leaving home, menopause, retirement, bereavement, or simply shedding an outdated version of yourself.
These moments can feel unsettling at best, downright catastrophic at worst! But they can also become places of deep insight, renewed courage, and exciting beginnings, especially when we don't have to navigate them alone.
Becky x
What becomes possible
Every threshold is different, so there's no single destination. But when we meet these transitions with honesty, curiosity, and witnesses, it can feel sooooo much better!
You're probably at a threshold if any of this sounds familiar...
I don't recognise myself anymore.
I know something has to change, but I don't know what exactly.
I keep asking everyone else what it is I should do.
I feel guilty because my life looks fine. It is fine, I should be grateful.
Sometimes, I just want someone to tell me what to do, but I also want to figure it out for myself.
I want to stop feeling like I'm going round in circles all the time.
I don't even know what I enjoy anymore.
I keep waiting to feel certain before I make my next move.
I want to feel alive again.
Am I the only one to feel like this?
I'm tired of carrying everything.
Why do I feel so restless?
I've spent so long being everything everyone needed me to be, that I got lost along the way.
I miss feeling excited about life.
I don't want to keep muddling through; I want to feel amazing.
This is what's possible:
You begin to understand who you're in the process of becoming.
You start to know what it is you actually want from this next season of your life.
You stop asking everyone else what it is you should do.
You feel less alone in all of this.
You stop second-guessing yourself.
You feel less wobbly, even when life is uncertain.
You spend less time wondering if everyone else knows what they're doing, or if they've got it all worked out (they don't!).
You can trust your own wisdom instead of taking on other people's answers.
You can let go of what isn't working for you anymore.
See new possibilities and opportunities again.
Feel hopeful. Feel excited.
Work out your next step. You don't have to know the whole plan, just the next step.
You can understand why this feels so overwhelming + have compassion for yourself.
Stop letting fear make all the decisions.
The Sacred Pause: A Threshold Companion for Midlife Women
This is a free, comprehensive guide to the threshold you're standing at.
It helps you to understand:
→ Why you're in your second initiation → Why you're not lost, you're liminal
→ Reclamation vs reinvention → 6 practices for crossing the threshold
→ Finding your pack of Wild Women → Menopause as a mirror to menarche
Sign up to receive yours today:
“A woman arrives in this world-between-worlds through yearning and by seeking something she can see just out of the corner of her eye."
Clarissa Pinkola Estes - Women Who Run With The Wolves
CONTACT ME
If you’re feeling the call of the next chapter but aren’t sure yet whether to book some 1:1 Threshold Sessions or if you want to join The Village, you’re warmly invited to book a conversation with me.
I know that fear about these "conversations", so please don't worry. I can guarantee I am not a pushy saleswoman. I'm only interested in working with people where it's a good match.
We’ll talk about where you are in your life right now, what's stirring for you, and whether what I offer is right for you.
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