You're Standing at a Threshold
Whether something is ending, beginning, or there's something you can't quite name niggling away at you in the background, you don't have to figure it out alone.
I create spaces where women can slow down, listen deeply, and find their own way through life's thresholds.
You might be here because....
You've held a lot together. Possibly for a long time. Life, work, relationships.
The expectations.
And from the outside, it probably looks more than fine.
But underneath?
Something doesn't quite fit anymore.
You can feel it in your body. In your energy. In the way things that used to work just... don't
It's hard to name. Harder to explain.
Something in you is shifting. Perhaps it feels like grief and excitement. Fear and possibility.
An ending and a beginning, all at once.
Not because anything has gone wrong. But because life is inviting you across a threshold.
Life brings all of us to thresholds.
A threshold is the space between what has been and what is in the process of becoming. It's the in-between place where life no longer feels as it once did, but what's next isn't yet clear.
It might be the end of a relationship, a career change, becoming a parent, children leaving home, menopause, retirement, bereavement, or simply shedding an outdated version of yourself.
These moments can feel unsettling at best, downright catastrophic at worst! But they can also become places of deep insight, renewed courage, and exciting beginnings, especially when we don't have to navigate them alone.
Becky x
What becomes possible
Every threshold is different, so there's no single destination. But when we meet these transitions with honesty, curiosity, and witnesses, something shifts.
If any of this sounds familiar...
I don't recognise myself anymore.
I know something has to change, but I don't know what.
I keep looking for answers outside myself.
I feel guilty because my life looks fine. It is fine, I should be grateful.
Sometimes, I just want someone to tell me what to do, but I don't really want to be told what to do. I want somewhere to figure it out for myself.
I want to stop feeling like I'm going round in circles all the time.
I don't even know what I enjoy anymore
I keep waiting to feel certain before I make my next move.
I want to feel alive again
Am I the only one to feel like this?
I'm tired of carrying everything
Why do I feel so restless?
I've spent so long being everything everyone needed to be
I miss feeling excited about life
I don't want to keep surviving
This is what's possible:
You begin to understand who you're becoming
Know what it is you actually want from this next season of your life.
Feel less alone in all of this.
Stop second-guessing yourself.
Feel more grounded in yourself, even when life is uncertain.
Stop asking everyone else what it is you should do.
Spend less time wondering if everyone else knows what they're doing, or if they've got it all worked out (they don't!).
Trust your own wisdom instead of searching for someone else's answers.
Let go of what no longer works for you.
See new possibilities where you once felt stuck.
Feel hopeful again.
Work out your next step.
Understand why this feels so overwhelming
Stop letting fear make all the decisions.
You probably already know what needs to happen.
That's not the problem.
The problem is staying with it long enough to actually move.
Most women circle this point for months.
Sometimes years.
Thinking about it.
Talking about it.
Almost doing it.
And then… not.
This is where we begin.
The Threshing Floor is a small (online) group for women who are done circling.
A place to stay with what’s already there
long enough for something real to shift.
The Sacred Pause: A Threshold Companion for Midlife Women
This is a free, comprehensive guide to the threshold you're standing at.
It helps you to understand:
→ Why you're in your second initiation → Why you're not lost, you're liminal
→ Reclamation vs reinvention → 6 practices for crossing the threshold
→ Finding your pack of Wild Women → Menopause as a mirror to menarche
Sign up to receive yours today:
“A woman arrives in this world-between-worlds through yearning and by seeking something she can see just out of the corner of her eye."
Clarissa Pinkola Estes - Women Who Run With The Wolves
CONTACT ME
If you’re feeling the call of the next chapter but aren’t sure yet whether The Threshing Floor or The Reclamation is right for you, you’re warmly invited to book a conversation with me.
We’ll talk about where you are in your midlife transition, what’s stirring for you right now, and see if what I offer is right for you.
You can work with me 1:1 or join one of my group programmes, depending on what serves you best.
Absolutely no obligation, or hard sell! I only want to work with women who feel the call. 🐺
Online only
07814 565835
